Everyone of us will tell,

My mom is super mom, My mom is world’s best mom….

Of ccourse yes! every mother is a super mom as well as super woman. #She always think about her children. #She always bothered about her children, care about her children and work for her children. In this world #She is only one who loves you without selfishness. That’s why we all love our mom more than we love others.

But….,

When it’s come to a #Singlemom #She is not only a super mom also a super dad to her children. #She might be divorced, widow or separate whatever it’s #She is the mom and dad for children. you have to agree with me on this point.

You can refer Single mom…. post. which has been shown some problems of a #Singlemom. on today post #Singapenn going to reveal the some positive as well as negative effects face by a #Singlemom ‘s children.

Positive effects

Strong mother – child bonding

Spending quality time with their little one creates a unique bond which will be stronger than the one if they were a nuclear parent. It goes well in the case of custodial parents (one who has sole physical custody of the child) and also non-custodial parents who play a significant role in their child’s lives.

Strong Sense Of Community

As with the phrase discussed above “it takes a village to raise a child,” it works with single parent families as well. Children who have single parents will also have many supporters. Most cases, the extended family members will play a unique role in a child’s life. Single parents who do not live with their extended families will try participating in community groups which may include single parent support groups, synagogues and churches.

  • Join sole parent support groups
  • Involve yourself in your child’s academics

Share Responsibilities

Children raised by single parents will not just have token responsibilities to do, but their contribution to the complete family system is necessary. In this way, children will understand the value of their contribution and can take pleasure in their work. However, there should be a clear parent-child structure and roles and responsibilities so the child doesn’t become responsible age inappropriately.

Maturity

Children will find their parents working hard, and it will force them to collaborate and work along with their parents. Additionally, the children will also learn to manage their disappointments in life. For children to have these skills, they still need guidance from their single parents. Hence, it’s still a collaboration between the parent and the child with clear boundary and structure.

Parental Role Modelling

Children brought up in single parent families will realize their importance in their parents’ lives.

Negative effects

Financial Troubles

Most single parents work long hours to meet the financial needs of the family. It is necessary to run the household and raise the children. There may be chances when they have to deny there kids from their requirements, and they may have to juggle repeatedly between financial commitments. The child may thus be not able to take the opportunities he/she always dreamt of due to financial concerns.

Low Parenting Quality

There way of parenting suffers when many responsibilities add to there everyday life. The long hours of working may make them to miss their child’s important school functions. They may not afford a babysitter to take out some valuable down time. They may also disclose their personal, professional or financial issues with the child. But, they will not have the maturity and emotional strength to deal with the situations so as to help their #Singlemom.

Adjustment Difficulties

Children will also face the issues along with their single parents. They may be a sense of loss, poverty and continuous exposure to parental arguments. While the parent’s sense of loss is because of the missing spouse, a child’s loss will be a guide or a protector. It will be tougher for children at their young age.

Emotional Problems

The #Singlemom’s children are likely to suffer from self-esteem problems. They may crave for affection, which they will not get enough because of busy schedule of their mom. Thus, they may lose expectations in their relationships later in life. or they will actually have more expectation for affection and company down the road but that will not create a healthy dynamic. They will take all the blame for their living conditions. It may be difficult for you to stop them from drawing comparisons.

Raising kids, without the support of the better half, is not an easy thing to do as they have to single-handedly face a fair share of concerns, dilemmas, and other issues. However the #Singlemom never lose her heart over any issues!

#She always try to give a better life for a children without anyone’s support. so, if you can please support #her but if you can’t don’t blame #her for someone’s mistakes. let #her live #her life happily 🙏🏼❤️

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